Damsel in Distress/Rescuer
• Housekeeper/House Owner
If you are going to engage in role-play, then make sure you both choose roles you like. The object here is to bring pleasure, and don’t forget that. If she is totally uncomfortable playing dom to your sub, (or vice versa) you must keep searching for the kind of role-play you both like.
EPILOGUE
Over the years, many men have asked me, “Why isn’t my wife/girlfriend/partner interested in sex any more?” Then, as now, the answer always goes beyond learning some new tongue trick. The answer most often has more to do with making room for sex, making sex a priority, and most importantly, giving it the excitement and respect it deserves. So, what I hope to accomplish with this book is to do more than just give you a few new tongue or finger tricks, but also give you sound advice for building a sensual relationship upon which you can continue to have mind-blowing sex for years to come.
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